Birthday Reflection For The Past Year.

by Gordie

Gordie Rogers on his 1st birthday.

Today in History: September 25th.

• 1789: In America the first congress adopted 12 amendments to the Constitution and sent them to the states for ratification. The first ten became the Bill of Rights.

• 1926: Henry Ford announced the 8 hour, 5-day work week

• 1975: Lifestyle designer, Gordie Rogers was born.

A birthday can be a great day to do two things: reflect and celebrate.

Reflect.

On your birthday, try to give yourself an hour earlier in the day to just be quiet and reflect on how you’ve lived your life over the past year. Think about such things as relationships, health, wealth, career, etc. Have you made progress in these and other areas or have you remained stagnant or even gone backwards in one of them? Be honest with yourself.

Make a written list of what you have failed to do or need improving on. This can be a great source for setting some new goals or refining current goals.

Don’t just dwell on the negative.

Make a list of what you have achieved or at least improved on in the past year. Write down any improvements you’ve made no matter how small it is. Note any business, financial or career successes. Take some joy from those.

Don’t forget your personal life. Have you been getting on better with your spouse? How is your relationship with your children? Made any new friends this year? How’s your health, better or worse? Did you manage to have an enjoyable trip anywhere? See whether you can improve on these areas over the next year.

It’s always good to be grateful that you’ve had another year on life in this world. Life can be such a precious gift. Remember there are plenty of people in the world who are much worse off than you and lack the opportunities that you have. Perhaps you can think of ways how to make someone else’s life better over the next year..

Celebrate.

Spend time with family and friends. Go out for dinner or a picnic; have a party, get a little drunk and hug and kiss someone or several people you really like with the excuse that you’re drunk. Real friends won’t care and you’ll soon discover who’s anal retentive.

Just have fun and do something you really want to do. Be happy and share that happiness with those around you. Be human. Your birthday celebration shouldn’t be a solemn occasion, but a joyous occasion. Don’t think, that it’s one less year I have left on this Earth. Rather think that it has been one more year you’ve been blessed with to enjoy here.

My Birthday Wish.

I wish that you, my lovely Lifestyle Design 4U readers would all either subscribe to my blog by either email or RSS and tweet this post. I also wish you all the best in all areas of your lives.

Finally, thank you for being kind enough to read my blog. You have brought me a lot of happiness. I sincerely hope my blog can enrich your lives and bring you happiness over the next year.

Have a wonderful day, everybody!

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{ 28 comments… read them below or add one }

1 Amrita Singh September 25, 2009 at 3:02 pm

Happy Birthday, Gordie! Good occasion to reflect on the past and plan for the future, and a perfect time for a blog post.
I like your suggestion of going out for a little celebration and hugging and kissing people you really like :-)
Enjoyed the post! Have a lovely day today!

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2 Gordie September 25, 2009 at 6:24 pm

Thanks, Amrita. That’s very sweet of you! :)

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3 Jimi Jones September 25, 2009 at 6:45 pm

Happy Birthday, Gordie!
May you have many, many more to reflect upon life’s journey.
Nice post. All the best to you man.

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4 Gordie September 25, 2009 at 6:59 pm

Cheers Jimi!

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5 Glen Allsopp September 25, 2009 at 7:39 pm

Happy Birthday dude!

Have a drink on me :)

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6 Gordie September 25, 2009 at 10:31 pm

Will do!

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7 Johnluffa September 25, 2009 at 7:53 pm

Hey :)
Happy Birthday Gordie…Enjoy your day and be sure to have a blast.
Have another pint on me :-)

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8 Gordie September 25, 2009 at 10:31 pm

Will do, too! :)

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9 Mike CJ September 25, 2009 at 9:01 pm

Happy birthday Gordie!

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10 Gordie September 25, 2009 at 10:31 pm

Cheers, Mike!

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11 Tristan Lee September 25, 2009 at 10:26 pm

A year older is a year wiser… thanks for these tips on reflection… also… happy birthday!

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12 Gordie September 25, 2009 at 10:32 pm

Hope the reflection is of some use. Thanks for the birthday wishes, Tristan.

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13 Nathan Hangen September 25, 2009 at 10:34 pm

Happy Birthday Gordie! I like the reflective nature of the post. Cool pic too :)

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14 Gordie September 25, 2009 at 10:57 pm

Cheers mate and all the best for your Iron man race on Sunday!

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15 Chris Downing September 25, 2009 at 10:47 pm

Hey Gordie!!!

Happy Birthday fella! Such a great birthday post mate, something that I have found myself doing to be honest, especially on my 40th this year having just come out of brain surgery 7 weeks previous. I can totally understand every word and sentiment – there have beena few people since that I would have loved to have hugged and kissed – as long as the wife didn’t find out that is ;)
Reflection is brilliant – as long as you have the drive and energy to act upon it. I hate having some of the same targets each year! Procrastination is our worst enemy – one day I will do something about that ;)
You got me thinking, and thank you for that. May your future years be blessed with many more Birthdays and belts of motivation!

Look forward to reading some more. I have granted your wish, I have subscribed to your RSS feed and will be signing up for the other stuff after I have pressed the “send button” – a pillar post if ever I saw one!

TC

Chris

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16 Gordie September 25, 2009 at 10:55 pm

Wow, Chris. You comment made me cry. ;)

I sincerely hope your recovery from the surgery is coming along okay. Stay strong brother and no more procrastinating. :)

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17 Robert Bravery September 25, 2009 at 10:56 pm

Happy Birthday Mate;
What you got on your gift card?
To Gordie …
From Gordie …

Great way to sit and reflect what has happened, and where you will be in the next year

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18 Gordie September 25, 2009 at 10:58 pm

Actually I didn’t write “From Gordie”on the card. That way I could pretend someone actually liked me. :P

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19 Nate September 25, 2009 at 11:02 pm

I really like the idea of thinking over things on your birthday. Usually I don’t do it on my birthday though, it’s usually on the 4th of July. When I watch the fireworks here in the U.S., I have a few minutes to think… where was I last year? What have I accomplished since then? Great post idea, Gordie.

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20 Gordie September 25, 2009 at 11:10 pm

Thanks Nate. I think there is something to looking up into the heavens at night whether it be filled with fireworks or stars and contemplating important issues.

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21 Patty Reiser September 26, 2009 at 3:12 am

Wishing you a scent-sational birthday and may you have good health and continued success to celebrate with next year!
Patty

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22 Gordie September 26, 2009 at 9:23 am

Thank you, Patty! :)

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23 Annabel Candy, Get In the Hot Spot September 26, 2009 at 6:12 am

Bon anniversaire, cumpleanos feliz and happy birthday from the land down under.

Excellent steps here for taking stock, planning an even better year next year and congratulating yourself on your successes of the previous year. I think people do this on New Years but not their birthday so it’s a great idea to do it on the day your were born too. Twice as many check ins.

Glad you included getting drunk too:) I had a great party on my 40th – the first big party I’d had since my 21st with everyone pushing each other in the pool fully clothed and generally behaving in a debauched and childish manner. Happy memories! You’ll be accumulating some more too:)

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24 Gordie September 26, 2009 at 9:24 am

Hi Annabel,
It sounds like you had a really nice 40th. It’s good for us to let loose now and again. It’s called being human. :)

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25 Blaine Bullman September 26, 2009 at 9:22 pm

Happy Birthday Gordie!!!!

It’s really helpful to step back and reflect, to get a clear look at what you’ve done and what your doing, I try to do this whenever I can.

You and your blog have already enriched my life Gordie. Hope you had a wonderful birthday :-)

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26 Gordie September 26, 2009 at 9:48 pm

Cheers Blaine,
Actually I also learn a lot from your blogging tips. Our respective blogs are very complimentary. You show us how to blog, and I try to show you how to live when you’re not blogging. :)

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27 John Bardos - JetSetCitizen September 27, 2009 at 1:54 pm

Happy Birthday Gordie,

Great posts! Keep them coming.

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28 Gordie September 27, 2009 at 2:13 pm

Thanks John, enjoying your blog too.

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