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		<title>By: Gordie</title>
		<link>http://lifestyledesignforyou.com/2009/11/lifestyle-design-blogging-road/comment-page-1/#comment-1449</link>
		<dc:creator>Gordie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Nov 2009 02:01:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Jen,
Thanks for all the support and encouragement.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Jen,<br />
Thanks for all the support and encouragement.</p>
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		<title>By: jen</title>
		<link>http://lifestyledesignforyou.com/2009/11/lifestyle-design-blogging-road/comment-page-1/#comment-1448</link>
		<dc:creator>jen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2009 20:43:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Gordie, 
Its good to hear you have decided to continue. :) it&#039;s.good to get advice but ultimately I think you have to follow your own instinct. All the best with that decision, I look forward to hearing what you decide.
Jen
.-= jen&#039;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://reachourdreams.com/people-will-love-you-people-will-hate-you/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;People will love you, people will hate you 鈥?/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Gordie,<br />
Its good to hear you have decided to continue. <img src='http://lifestyledesignforyou.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  it&#8217;s.good to get advice but ultimately I think you have to follow your own instinct. All the best with that decision, I look forward to hearing what you decide.<br />
Jen<br />
<span class="cluv"> jen&#8217;s last blog ..<a href="http://reachourdreams.com/people-will-love-you-people-will-hate-you/" rel="nofollow">People will love you, people will hate you 鈥?/a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://lifestyledesignforyou.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></a></span></p>
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		<title>By: Gordie</title>
		<link>http://lifestyledesignforyou.com/2009/11/lifestyle-design-blogging-road/comment-page-1/#comment-1441</link>
		<dc:creator>Gordie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Nov 2009 14:08:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Caron,
Yeah, it was just an idea I wanted to float out there. I asked because I think you guys give lots of great advice. I realize I&#039;m the one who has to make the decision, but it doesn&#039;t hurt for me to get some feed back from some more experienced people. 

Most have recommended against partnering. 

Thanks for taking the time to give me your two cents worth. Always appreciated. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Caron,<br />
Yeah, it was just an idea I wanted to float out there. I asked because I think you guys give lots of great advice. I realize I&#8217;m the one who has to make the decision, but it doesn&#8217;t hurt for me to get some feed back from some more experienced people. </p>
<p>Most have recommended against partnering. </p>
<p>Thanks for taking the time to give me your two cents worth. Always appreciated. <img src='http://lifestyledesignforyou.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Caron Margarete</title>
		<link>http://lifestyledesignforyou.com/2009/11/lifestyle-design-blogging-road/comment-page-1/#comment-1440</link>
		<dc:creator>Caron Margarete</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Nov 2009 13:45:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Gordie! Are you sitting down? Please stand up while I prepare my boot... Just joking, I promise to be nice(r) today... ;)

Buddy, this idea of partnership suggests that you don&#039;t believe in your ability to make a success of this site independent of other people. 

Guest posts are a great idea but with partnerships, apart from the few successful sites like Men with Pens, very few capture my attention because they lose the personal touch after a while, either that or I lose track of who I&#039;m learning about.

Men with Pens works well because quite often I&#039;ll be reading a guest post and they&#039;ll refer to James as though he&#039;s in the same office and they&#039;re taking the piss out of him. Is that close knit environment something you&#039;re going to be able to emulate? 

If you choose the partnership path then I sure hope you do it because you don&#039;t need the extra person but share your work with them because you can&#039;t help but want to.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Gordie! Are you sitting down? Please stand up while I prepare my boot&#8230; Just joking, I promise to be nice(r) today&#8230; <img src='http://lifestyledesignforyou.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Buddy, this idea of partnership suggests that you don&#8217;t believe in your ability to make a success of this site independent of other people. </p>
<p>Guest posts are a great idea but with partnerships, apart from the few successful sites like Men with Pens, very few capture my attention because they lose the personal touch after a while, either that or I lose track of who I&#8217;m learning about.</p>
<p>Men with Pens works well because quite often I&#8217;ll be reading a guest post and they&#8217;ll refer to James as though he&#8217;s in the same office and they&#8217;re taking the piss out of him. Is that close knit environment something you&#8217;re going to be able to emulate? </p>
<p>If you choose the partnership path then I sure hope you do it because you don&#8217;t need the extra person but share your work with them because you can&#8217;t help but want to.</p>
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		<title>By: Gordie</title>
		<link>http://lifestyledesignforyou.com/2009/11/lifestyle-design-blogging-road/comment-page-1/#comment-1431</link>
		<dc:creator>Gordie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 11:18:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey John,
When I plan to go back to New Zealand next year, I plan to start a business, but it will be unrelated to my blogging field. It will be interesting to see what happens, but I think I&#039;d still like to continue blogging in this field. I hope I could share my business experiences on this blog when that happens.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey John,<br />
When I plan to go back to New Zealand next year, I plan to start a business, but it will be unrelated to my blogging field. It will be interesting to see what happens, but I think I&#8217;d still like to continue blogging in this field. I hope I could share my business experiences on this blog when that happens.</p>
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		<title>By: John Bardos - JetSetCitizen</title>
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		<dc:creator>John Bardos - JetSetCitizen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 10:23:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Partnerships can be difficult at the best of times. The biggest problem is that everyone can do it for themselves so why would they want to work with someone else? There are benefits to partnerships of course, but most people want to own and control everything. All my efforts at collaboration and partnerships online have fallen apart, except for the ones I strictly own and control.

I think one thing that a lot of bloggers make a mistake with, including myself, is blogging about a topic different than the services they plan to sell. Blogging about travel when you are trying to sell graphic design services doesn&#039;t really make sense. Focus on your business and you will get the traffic. The problem is that you have to choose one thing the focus on. That is always difficult. I still haven&#039;t been able to narrow my focus because I enjoy these topics too much.
.-= John Bardos - JetSetCitizen&#039;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://jetsetcitizen.com/make-money-online/interview-ittybiz-founder-small-business-guru-naomi-dunford/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Interview with IttyBiz founder and Small Business Guru, Naomi Dunford&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Partnerships can be difficult at the best of times. The biggest problem is that everyone can do it for themselves so why would they want to work with someone else? There are benefits to partnerships of course, but most people want to own and control everything. All my efforts at collaboration and partnerships online have fallen apart, except for the ones I strictly own and control.</p>
<p>I think one thing that a lot of bloggers make a mistake with, including myself, is blogging about a topic different than the services they plan to sell. Blogging about travel when you are trying to sell graphic design services doesn&#8217;t really make sense. Focus on your business and you will get the traffic. The problem is that you have to choose one thing the focus on. That is always difficult. I still haven&#8217;t been able to narrow my focus because I enjoy these topics too much.<br />
<span class="cluv"> John Bardos &#8211; JetSetCitizen&#8217;s last blog ..<a href="http://jetsetcitizen.com/make-money-online/interview-ittybiz-founder-small-business-guru-naomi-dunford/" rel="nofollow">Interview with IttyBiz founder and Small Business Guru, Naomi Dunford</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://lifestyledesignforyou.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Gordie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gordie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 07:19:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Annabel,

I think they told us to post two to three times a day of getting in good with the search engines. Normally when you update your blog more regularly the Google crawlers will come back more often to index that new content.

I think I&#039;m pretty much settled on once or twice a week on my own blog and a guest post every two weeks. This will give me time to actually practice and study different aspects of lifestyle design and personal development before writing about them. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Annabel,</p>
<p>I think they told us to post two to three times a day of getting in good with the search engines. Normally when you update your blog more regularly the Google crawlers will come back more often to index that new content.</p>
<p>I think I&#8217;m pretty much settled on once or twice a week on my own blog and a guest post every two weeks. This will give me time to actually practice and study different aspects of lifestyle design and personal development before writing about them. <img src='http://lifestyledesignforyou.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Annabel Candy, Get In the Hot Spot</title>
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		<dc:creator>Annabel Candy, Get In the Hot Spot</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 01:28:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, I&#039;m on the fence about partnering but have serious misgivings. You have to be sure that you are both on the same track with the same goals, visions, determinations, time frame otherwise it won&#039;t work and could lead to resentment. 

I cut down from 3 posts a week to 2 and am thinking of reducing to 1. Why did they tell us we should post 2 or 3 times a day. I think they were taking the piss and the joke was on us. Glad we&#039;re all wising up to it now:)

Oh and very glad you are back on form:)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, I&#8217;m on the fence about partnering but have serious misgivings. You have to be sure that you are both on the same track with the same goals, visions, determinations, time frame otherwise it won&#8217;t work and could lead to resentment. </p>
<p>I cut down from 3 posts a week to 2 and am thinking of reducing to 1. Why did they tell us we should post 2 or 3 times a day. I think they were taking the piss and the joke was on us. Glad we&#8217;re all wising up to it now:)</p>
<p>Oh and very glad you are back on form:)</p>
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		<title>By: Dave Doolin</title>
		<link>http://lifestyledesignforyou.com/2009/11/lifestyle-design-blogging-road/comment-page-1/#comment-1422</link>
		<dc:creator>Dave Doolin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 20:51:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Only you can make this decision. 

I&#039;ve made it for myself: I will no longer partner with anyone where my main source of income is concerned.  Doesn&#039;t work for me.  I&#039;ve tried it several times.
.-= Dave Doolin&#039;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/WebsiteInAWeekend/~3/HXCahhLtP9o/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;I&#039;ve Just Wasted $53 on Hosting and a Domain, s***, What Now? HELP!?&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Only you can make this decision. </p>
<p>I&#8217;ve made it for myself: I will no longer partner with anyone where my main source of income is concerned.  Doesn&#8217;t work for me.  I&#8217;ve tried it several times.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Dave Doolin&#8217;s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/WebsiteInAWeekend/~3/HXCahhLtP9o/" rel="nofollow">I&#8217;ve Just Wasted $53 on Hosting and a Domain, s***, What Now? HELP!?</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://lifestyledesignforyou.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Gordie</title>
		<link>http://lifestyledesignforyou.com/2009/11/lifestyle-design-blogging-road/comment-page-1/#comment-1425</link>
		<dc:creator>Gordie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 13:37:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Ryan,
Thanks for that. I think it would be good for me just to sit quietly and ponder what I want exactly.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Ryan,<br />
Thanks for that. I think it would be good for me just to sit quietly and ponder what I want exactly.</p>
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		<title>By: Ryan</title>
		<link>http://lifestyledesignforyou.com/2009/11/lifestyle-design-blogging-road/comment-page-1/#comment-1424</link>
		<dc:creator>Ryan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 11:51:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Gordie,

You will know better than anybody.  Inner guidance trumps all.  Other&#039;s suggestions can be helpful but only you know what you truly want.  I&#039;ve made many life changing decisions after spending 30 minutes in a quiet room.  The chatter of the thinking mind - old thought habits that are driven by indecisions, failure, and other past ideas - distorts a vision.    I&#039;d sit down in silence after I first wake, let my mind clear, than ask myself your question.  The answer will reveal itself, if not after your session, sometime soon.  It always does.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Gordie,</p>
<p>You will know better than anybody.  Inner guidance trumps all.  Other&#8217;s suggestions can be helpful but only you know what you truly want.  I&#8217;ve made many life changing decisions after spending 30 minutes in a quiet room.  The chatter of the thinking mind &#8211; old thought habits that are driven by indecisions, failure, and other past ideas &#8211; distorts a vision.    I&#8217;d sit down in silence after I first wake, let my mind clear, than ask myself your question.  The answer will reveal itself, if not after your session, sometime soon.  It always does.</p>
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		<title>By: Gordie</title>
		<link>http://lifestyledesignforyou.com/2009/11/lifestyle-design-blogging-road/comment-page-1/#comment-1423</link>
		<dc:creator>Gordie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 07:03:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Dave,
It seems that most are recommending against partnering. I&#039;m glad I asked you guys. You&#039;re all full of great advice.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Dave,<br />
It seems that most are recommending against partnering. I&#8217;m glad I asked you guys. You&#8217;re all full of great advice.</p>
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		<title>By: Gordie</title>
		<link>http://lifestyledesignforyou.com/2009/11/lifestyle-design-blogging-road/comment-page-1/#comment-1421</link>
		<dc:creator>Gordie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 05:09:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks, Srinivas,
That would be really cool. I hope you do. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks, Srinivas,<br />
That would be really cool. I hope you do. <img src='http://lifestyledesignforyou.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Srinivas Rao</title>
		<link>http://lifestyledesignforyou.com/2009/11/lifestyle-design-blogging-road/comment-page-1/#comment-1420</link>
		<dc:creator>Srinivas Rao</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 03:52:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Gordie,

Whatever road you pursue, just don&#039;t give up. You&#039;ve done some great stuff here and I&#039;ve enjoyed collaborating with you and brainstorming with you. I may actually write another post for you as a case study on how to overhaul your blog :)
.-= Srinivas Rao&#039;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/PersonalDevelopmentSelf-improvementPersonalGrowthEducation/~3/lqsJbX9_9gY/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;6 Things I would do differently if I started my blog today&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Gordie,</p>
<p>Whatever road you pursue, just don&#8217;t give up. You&#8217;ve done some great stuff here and I&#8217;ve enjoyed collaborating with you and brainstorming with you. I may actually write another post for you as a case study on how to overhaul your blog <img src='http://lifestyledesignforyou.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
<span class="cluv"> Srinivas Rao&#8217;s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/PersonalDevelopmentSelf-improvementPersonalGrowthEducation/~3/lqsJbX9_9gY/" rel="nofollow">6 Things I would do differently if I started my blog today</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://lifestyledesignforyou.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Gordie</title>
		<link>http://lifestyledesignforyou.com/2009/11/lifestyle-design-blogging-road/comment-page-1/#comment-1419</link>
		<dc:creator>Gordie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 03:42:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Erica,
Perhaps you could share with us some of the pitfalls you discovered in your partnering experience.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Erica,<br />
Perhaps you could share with us some of the pitfalls you discovered in your partnering experience.</p>
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		<title>By: Gordie</title>
		<link>http://lifestyledesignforyou.com/2009/11/lifestyle-design-blogging-road/comment-page-1/#comment-1418</link>
		<dc:creator>Gordie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 03:40:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yeah, I know Techcrunch, Masahable, and MenWithPen&#039;s have headed in that direction with sharing writing evenly among a group of partners. They all rank very high in blog circles in their niches. That&#039;s what first gave me the idea of partnering. Thanks, Nathan.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah, I know Techcrunch, Masahable, and MenWithPen&#8217;s have headed in that direction with sharing writing evenly among a group of partners. They all rank very high in blog circles in their niches. That&#8217;s what first gave me the idea of partnering. Thanks, Nathan.</p>
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		<title>By: Gordie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gordie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 03:37:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I actually remembered you post swap idea post a while back. If I could find a small group in the same niche and we rotated posting on each others blogs, it would get more exposure without sacrificing the number of posts on one&#039;s on blog. Will approach some people.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I actually remembered you post swap idea post a while back. If I could find a small group in the same niche and we rotated posting on each others blogs, it would get more exposure without sacrificing the number of posts on one&#8217;s on blog. Will approach some people.</p>
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		<title>By: Gordie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gordie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 03:35:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Nate,
Thanks for the encouragement.  I will settle on one to two blog posts per week from myself and look for guest posts too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Nate,<br />
Thanks for the encouragement.  I will settle on one to two blog posts per week from myself and look for guest posts too.</p>
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