Goals.
Over the last month, I’ve been working on taking my personal development efforts up a notch by being more focused. If you haven’t set goals for your blog, your life, etc, I highly recommend you do so before the New Year.
The reason I recommend you do this is because New Year’s resolutions are conditioned behavior. You set them every year and it’s likely you don’t follow through on most of them because it’s the pattern you’ve had your whole life. I’ve outlined three basic steps below:
1. Write down your top 10 goals.
2. Write them in the positive, present, and first person.
3. Review them EVERY SINGLE DAY.
Autosuggestion.
If you have not read Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill, do yourself a favor and read it. While the book might seem a bit dated, most of the concepts from personal development and growth are rooted in many of the ideas in Think and Grow Rich. If people like Andrew Carnegie and others used these exact same principles for success, then there’s no reason not to follow them and believe in them.
One of the concepts that I enjoyed the most is the idea of Autosuggestion. Autosuggestion is similar to the concept of affirmations. Continual repetition of an idea will impress it on your subconscious very deeply and then result in external actions. Just to give you an example, one of the things I’ve been telling myself is that “I earn 5000 dollars per month in income from my blog.”
In the 15-20 days that I’ve used this I’ve come up with numerous new ideas for monetization. I’ve also developed a quarterly marketing plan for my blog. Below I’ve listed how to adopt the autosuggestion techniques into your life:
1. Rewrite your top 10 goals down every day when you wake up and every day before you go to sleep
2. Read them out loud first thing in the morning and before you go to sleep
3. If you need to a reminder, put them on your alarm clock, bathroom wall, mirror or somewhere else that forces you to interact with these goals.
Commitment and Consistency.
If there’s any reason that none of the above works for you or for anybody else, it’s lack of commitment and consistency. As I said once before, “How often do you decide not to brush your teeth?.” All of these efforts need to be consistent.
I’m guilty of not following through myself. But I’m tired of not having my life exactly the way I want it to be. If you think about this investment you are making, which is about 10-15 minutes a day, for 90 days, it’s a small price to pay for accomplishing your goals.
Let’s get there together and blow away our goals for this year. If you have any other suggestions, feel free to add them in the comments below.
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Wise words and something I should seriously consider as I am notorious for being easy diverted from the task in hand. It sounds very much as though the auto-suggestion idea is similar to the mantras that people chant.
Kevin Tea´s last blog ..Why I Took My Business Into The Cloud
Hey Kevin,
I was thinking the same thing too.
@Kevin: I can tell you this. By doing this my actions to take have just come to me with no effort. I’ve figured out exactly what I need to do to move in the right direction
Srinivas Rao´s last blog ..How To Harness Inertia to Boost Productivity
I’m big into settings goals at the moment, and it definitely seems to be paying off. I also set myself daily reminders of what I need to do to achieve each goal.
Anthony Feint´s last blog ..How to Keep on Blogging, and Blogging
Welcome Anthony!
Keep up the goal setting. Don’t let up. You’ll achieve great things.
Great post the idea of auto-suggestions combined with good old fashioned hard work and stick-ability is pretty much the best road map for success I know of. I added some self hypnosis and meditation to my quiver a few years ago and I have to say it’s makes the world of difference to the speed at which one can adopt new behavaviours.
Michael Fletcher´s last blog ..Failure Quotes – Celebrating my Failures of 2009
Hi Michael,
I think that if we keep adding to our arsenal we can only go further and faster. The human mind is just awesome, isn’t it?
Michael,
You hit the nail on the head. The daily autosuggestion ritual only adds force to what you’re doing and allows you to have the right energy in working towards your goals.
Srinivas Rao´s last blog ..How To Harness Inertia to Boost Productivity
Commitment and consistency, I could not agree more. This is where it all begins. Excellent post!
Jimi Jones´s last blog ..Gadgets – How Technology Can Work Against You
Hey Jimi,
Thanks for popping by. You’re a committed and consistent commenter.
I think autosuggestion works, but only if you have a plan to go with it. For instance, it wasn’t until I created a 5 year plan and added baby steps that it started working for me. It’s different from the Law of Attraction in that sense.
Nathan Hangen´s last blog ..Saturday Project Update – Thanks, Happiness, and Being a Blogger in 2010
Planning is vital. It’s like the route to the destination on a map. How far through your five year plan are you?
Gordie,
The point about reviewing goals every day is really, really good. That’s probably my weakest point. Mike CJ calls this “Conviction.”
Dave Doolin´s last blog ..How to Increase Your Search Ranking — By Doing Absolutely Nothing!
Hey Dave,
Yeah, I read that post too with the “four C’s”. It was good, wasn’t it?
Consistency is something I am working on at the moment.
Johnluffa´s last blog ..[Review] Beyond Blogging
Keep on going, John.
This is indeed a good suggestion. I actually started working on my 2010 Goals a week or so ago. I even created a little book I call my “Dream 2010 Swatch Book”. I filled this little book with pictures of my goals and dreams for the new year along with motivating words. I can carry this around with me every where I go and can easily share it as well. You can see it here: http://pkphotography.us/2009/12/what-dreams-may-come/
Patty Reiser´s last blog ..Adorable, no?
Hi Patty,
I saw that. Very nice job. Good way to help you visualize your goals.
Hi, Gordie,
Good strategy! What I would add, it is that you don’t have to make resolutions at the end of the year!
If as you say, making resolutions is a conditioned behaviour, then we can get rid of that conditioned behaviour and replace it with one more empowering! Let’s be aware that Life is not renwed every year but every single day!
Very good point, Boris. Live each day fully and renew your resolutions each day too.
I do find re visiting your goals at the end of each year is something that I enjoy as your looking back at your year on your acomplishments and then it gets you exited about the next year ahead and what you can do.
I know it doesnt make any difference, what day or time of year, but to me its just a great time think about all this
Oh btw, I set 4 major goals and work on mini projects throughout the year to help me get there.
Cheers
Greg
Hi Greg,
I think the New Year is in someways a very practical time to find someone who is also setting goals and then keep each other accountable on moving froward.
Greg,
I think if you review those 4 goals daily then you won’t even need a whole year to accomplish them.
Srinivas Rao´s last blog ..How To Harness Inertia to Boost Productivity
I tend to be unfocused at times and need to consistently review my goals. These points are a great reminder that we need to commit to our work and consistently hack at it little by little.
Gordie, I hope you’ve been well!
Ken Kurosawa´s last blog ..How to Satisfy Our Need to Belong
Hey Ken,
Long time no see. Hope things are well with you too.
How’s things with your goals?
Perhaps when setting goals it is best to make them achievable. I know of people who set goals that are so way over the top it’s not long before they give up because it is all too hard.
Sire´s last blog ..How Amazon And The Power Of Keywords Can Increase Your Earnings
“Perhaps when setting goals it is best to make them achievable.” Amen to that! We’re on the same page.
Preach it, brother! My goal to have 6 billion unique visitors per day to this blog was a bit of a stretch.
I don’t make New Year’s resolutions. Why wait to the new year to set goals for yourself. By setting such open-ended goals such as by the end of 2010 I’ll be 20 lbs thinner you’re just setting yourself up to fail. (I used weight loss as i need to loose weight. lol)
Rose´s last blog ..House of Chaos- My Stressful life
Welcome to the club, Rose.
I think setting a specific date can be good for achieving goals. Not all pressure is bad.
It’s hard to read those resolutions everyday, so perhaps print it out and tape it on the fridgerator yeah?
Resolutions are just fun for me. I usually have 10, but i circle 3 I must do and I do them completely.
Financial Samurai´s last blog ..Playing Until My Knees Swell And Feet Bleed
I think if you have the resolutions succinct and clear, you could do it, but you’d have to commit a block of time for doing it.
Printing them out is definitely one way to go. I think the key is that whatever you do, you do it on a consistent basis.
Srinivas Rao´s last blog ..How To Harness Inertia to Boost Productivity
Hi Gordie. I really enjoyed your lesson on autosuggestion, commitment, and consistency. Sometimes we forget our goals because there’s just so much to do in the day, but your example of writing the goal down everyday many times basically commands the mind to have no other choice but to start accepting and believing in the goal that wish to achieve. Thanks for this article.
Really glad you enjoyed it, Hulbert but Srinivas Rao was the author.
You mentioned how believing in these principles can bring about the same success. I’d say that is the whole purpose of the book since you can only generate what you truly believe in and so your thoughts and actions will be shapes by those beliefs. Set your beliefs on track for your goals, and your goals will be easily met.
Mike King´s last blog ..Giving ALL you have…
Welcome, Mike!
Think and Grow Rich is an awesome book, well ahead of its time. So glad you like it and agree with its principles too.
I have done that… I mean, I’ve made up a list of 10 goals, but when reviewing them, I start crossing out instead of getting inspired
) Joking of course! Thank you for a great article!