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	<title>Comments on: How To Make Decisions And Follow Through To Reach Your Goals.</title>
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		<title>By: Gordie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gordie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Jan 2010 07:55:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, I think in some ways that fits into the motivation part of it. You want to know why something is worthwhile to you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, I think in some ways that fits into the motivation part of it. You want to know why something is worthwhile to you.</p>
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		<title>By: Eric</title>
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		<dc:creator>Eric</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Jan 2010 13:04:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In my opinion these are all good ideas to look at and set fourth.

I also like looking at the why of things. If you have a strong enough &#039;why&#039; then you can accomplish just about any how. Just have a reason and then figure out how you&#039;re going to go about making it happen. If you ever have any doubt about something simply come back to why you are going about doing this.

You can have more than one why too. The why is the strength. The how is the way.

Good article! :)
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In my opinion these are all good ideas to look at and set fourth.</p>
<p>I also like looking at the why of things. If you have a strong enough &#8216;why&#8217; then you can accomplish just about any how. Just have a reason and then figure out how you&#8217;re going to go about making it happen. If you ever have any doubt about something simply come back to why you are going about doing this.</p>
<p>You can have more than one why too. The why is the strength. The how is the way.</p>
<p>Good article! <img src='http://lifestyledesignforyou.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
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		<title>By: Gordie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gordie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Dec 2009 15:17:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Cheers, Boris!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Cheers, Boris!</p>
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		<title>By: Gordie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gordie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Dec 2009 15:16:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Lol! I&#039;m starting to enjoy posing for photos now. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lol! I&#8217;m starting to enjoy posing for photos now. <img src='http://lifestyledesignforyou.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Boris</title>
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		<dc:creator>Boris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Dec 2009 03:34:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Gordie,
Very interesting subject: How can you make decisions and then take action? 
It is very simple: Be aware that you are making decisions anyway! Even when you believe that you are not making decisions, even when you don&#039;t take action, you are still making decisions! When you realize this, you will have the option of making a decision that moves you closer to your goals, or allowing that something happens that moves you away from your dear goals.
All the best!
Boris</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Gordie,<br />
Very interesting subject: How can you make decisions and then take action?<br />
It is very simple: Be aware that you are making decisions anyway! Even when you believe that you are not making decisions, even when you don&#8217;t take action, you are still making decisions! When you realize this, you will have the option of making a decision that moves you closer to your goals, or allowing that something happens that moves you away from your dear goals.<br />
All the best!<br />
Boris</p>
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		<title>By: Annabel Candy, Get In the Hot Spot</title>
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		<dc:creator>Annabel Candy, Get In the Hot Spot</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Dec 2009 01:03:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love your thinking pose too:) But sometimes you just need to follow your instincts. Go on, you know what the right answer is don&#039;t you?!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love your thinking pose too:) But sometimes you just need to follow your instincts. Go on, you know what the right answer is don&#8217;t you?!</p>
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		<title>By: Gordie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gordie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Dec 2009 12:27:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good analogy about the puzzle piece, Armen.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good analogy about the puzzle piece, Armen.</p>
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		<title>By: Gordie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gordie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Dec 2009 12:26:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Robert,
Looking at how your blog is improving, I&#039;d say there&#039;s no need to fear failure. You&#039;re on the right track.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Robert,<br />
Looking at how your blog is improving, I&#8217;d say there&#8217;s no need to fear failure. You&#8217;re on the right track.</p>
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		<title>By: Armen Shirvanian</title>
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		<dc:creator>Armen Shirvanian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Dec 2009 08:47:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Gordie.

Good call on making the decision with goal in mind.  Then, we don&#039;t have to think about the decision, and can focus on how we are getting further.  Decisions are usually small pieces of a larger story, so getting weighed down by one is like spending 30 minutes trying to find the spot for a piece in a 500-piece puzzle set.

Putting the goal above short-term gains can be hard, but those who do get both short and long-term gains.
.-= Armen Shirvanian&#039;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TimelessInformation/~3/XhnYfxlVu7w/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Discussion On Long Versus Short-Term Efforts&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Gordie.</p>
<p>Good call on making the decision with goal in mind.  Then, we don&#8217;t have to think about the decision, and can focus on how we are getting further.  Decisions are usually small pieces of a larger story, so getting weighed down by one is like spending 30 minutes trying to find the spot for a piece in a 500-piece puzzle set.</p>
<p>Putting the goal above short-term gains can be hard, but those who do get both short and long-term gains.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Armen Shirvanian&#8217;s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TimelessInformation/~3/XhnYfxlVu7w/" rel="nofollow">Discussion On Long Versus Short-Term Efforts</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://lifestyledesignforyou.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Robert Bravery</title>
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		<dc:creator>Robert Bravery</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Dec 2009 08:43:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>For me the two biggest issues is Fear and I suppose a sub category of that, Fear of failure, making the wrong decision.
.-= Robert Bravery&#039;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.integralwebsolutions.co.za/Blog/EntryId/465/Farmville-3-8-times-more-popular-than-Twitter.aspx&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Farmville 3.8 times more popular than Twitter.&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For me the two biggest issues is Fear and I suppose a sub category of that, Fear of failure, making the wrong decision.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Robert Bravery&#8217;s last blog ..<a href="http://www.integralwebsolutions.co.za/Blog/EntryId/465/Farmville-3-8-times-more-popular-than-Twitter.aspx" rel="nofollow">Farmville 3.8 times more popular than Twitter.</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://lifestyledesignforyou.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Gordie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gordie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Dec 2009 23:00:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Barbara,
It was very nice of George to say such great things about my blog. Knock that second guessing habit on the head to get ahead. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Barbara,<br />
It was very nice of George to say such great things about my blog. Knock that second guessing habit on the head to get ahead. <img src='http://lifestyledesignforyou.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Barbara Swafford</title>
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		<dc:creator>Barbara Swafford</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Dec 2009 22:49:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Gordie, 

What great advice. My favorite is &quot;accept you made the right decision.&quot; In the past I use to make a decision and then start second guessing myself. Not good! 

P.S. I came here via George&#039;s review of your site. Congratulations on the honor.
.-= Barbara Swafford&#039;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://bloggingwithoutablog.com/save-time-copy-paste-a-post/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Save Time:Copy And Paste A Post&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Gordie, </p>
<p>What great advice. My favorite is &#8220;accept you made the right decision.&#8221; In the past I use to make a decision and then start second guessing myself. Not good! </p>
<p>P.S. I came here via George&#8217;s review of your site. Congratulations on the honor.<br />
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		<title>By: Gordie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gordie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Dec 2009 18:47:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great, Patty! What&#039;s up?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great, Patty! What&#8217;s up?</p>
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		<title>By: Patty Reiser</title>
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		<dc:creator>Patty Reiser</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Dec 2009 17:48:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for this post Gordie.  It came on a day when I needed a little inspiration and the motivation to make a big leap of faith.
.-= Patty Reiser&#039;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://pkphotography.us/2009/12/look-at-those-eyes/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Look at those Eyes&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for this post Gordie.  It came on a day when I needed a little inspiration and the motivation to make a big leap of faith.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Patty Reiser&#8217;s last blog ..<a href="http://pkphotography.us/2009/12/look-at-those-eyes/" rel="nofollow">Look at those Eyes</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://lifestyledesignforyou.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Gordie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gordie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Dec 2009 16:28:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good idea, Erica. We are mature enough to deal with the consequences of our decisions.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good idea, Erica. We are mature enough to deal with the consequences of our decisions.</p>
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		<title>By: Erica Mueller</title>
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		<dc:creator>Erica Mueller</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Dec 2009 09:57:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think the part that stuck out to me the most is letting go of the what-ifs and doubts that come after making a decision. It&#039;s so hard to make a decision when you know you&#039;ll be in turmoil over it even after you&#039;ve made it. Decide beforehand that your decisions are final. You&#039;re a grown-up. You can live with whatever your decision brings.
.-= Erica Mueller&#039;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/EricaMuellerOnline/~3/uKrfLPpOXy0/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Personal Wordpress Theme from BloggingTips.com&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think the part that stuck out to me the most is letting go of the what-ifs and doubts that come after making a decision. It&#8217;s so hard to make a decision when you know you&#8217;ll be in turmoil over it even after you&#8217;ve made it. Decide beforehand that your decisions are final. You&#8217;re a grown-up. You can live with whatever your decision brings.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Erica Mueller&#8217;s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/EricaMuellerOnline/~3/uKrfLPpOXy0/" rel="nofollow">Personal WordPress Theme from BloggingTips.com</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://lifestyledesignforyou.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Gordie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gordie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Dec 2009 05:08:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yeah, a bit of spontaneity doesn&#039;t hurt. The main thing is to try to build some consistency.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah, a bit of spontaneity doesn&#8217;t hurt. The main thing is to try to build some consistency.</p>
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		<title>By: Kevin Tea</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kevin Tea</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Dec 2009 04:19:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Gordie, great hints and timely reminders for many of us and I put my hand up to some of these. I tend to fluctuate!! Some times I am almost anally retentive and mentally get blocked up and don&#039;t do anything and at others I am just totally spontaneous. Makes for an interesting mix.,
.-= Kevin Tea&#039;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.web2andmore.net/2009/11/30/how-to-avoid-water-boarding-your-potential-cloud-provider/comment-page-1/#comment-439&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;By: Kevin Tea&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Gordie, great hints and timely reminders for many of us and I put my hand up to some of these. I tend to fluctuate!! Some times I am almost anally retentive and mentally get blocked up and don&#8217;t do anything and at others I am just totally spontaneous. Makes for an interesting mix.,<br />
<span class="cluv"> Kevin Tea&#8217;s last blog ..<a href="http://www.web2andmore.net/2009/11/30/how-to-avoid-water-boarding-your-potential-cloud-provider/comment-page-1/#comment-439" rel="nofollow">By: Kevin Tea</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://lifestyledesignforyou.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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